tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-52320190623828307502024-03-05T14:36:14.081+08:00小信 ’s 部落格小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-26895301881389717342011-11-01T21:27:00.000+08:002011-11-01T21:28:59.469+08:00<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">对照一下行列,那些是你初次约会常犯的错误:</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><u><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">第一次见面,避免谈及自己以往恋情</span><o:p></o:p></u></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">你或许对以往的感情很执着,很痴情。请不要以为自己以往的感情旅程可以感动他人;那甚至可能导致他人对你有错误的批判。或许你说的都是真的,但是在信任还没巩固时,难免让人家觉得你太戏剧化,如果让对方觉得你还忘不了他人的话,那就更糟糕了。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><u><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">别让对方知道同时有多少人和你约会</span><o:p></o:p></u></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">或许你无意间提及他人和你的约会</span> -- <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">说者无心,听者有意,那让他人觉得你向他炫耀,是种不成熟的表现。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><u><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">注意沟通应该是双向的,而不是自己单向沟通</span><o:p></o:p></u></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">对某些话题说的起劲时,我们常常过于表达自己的立场和看法而忽略了让对方的见解。沟通的最终目的就是多了解对方。如果沟通上让自己表达过多,一来容易说错话,二来让对方感到对方不注重自己的看法。试着融入,了解对方的思维,别反驳太多</span> - <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">尽管自己无法认同。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><u><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">小心言语</span><o:p></o:p></u></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">避开太多的批评。尽量把很多批评的字眼用中立的字眼取代。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; "><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">比如,矮= 娇小玲珑,不很高</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in; "><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">丑=(没人会用这么恶毒的字眼吧)平凡,样貌不出众</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"> <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">嚣张,自大 = 过于自信</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"> <o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><u><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">谦虚是种美德</span><o:p></o:p></u></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">你或许渴望对方对你另眼相看,但切记勿过于彰显自己的成就;那只会让别人觉得你自大。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><u><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">别在对方面前称赞别人</span><o:p></o:p></u></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">称赞别人只会让他</span>/<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">她觉得你的焦点和注意力放在别人身上,让对方有不被重视的错觉。</span><o:p></o:p></p>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-62358276197727657932010-11-11T23:20:00.003+08:002010-12-09T22:22:24.875+08:00<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">绿色爱情</span> GROWING UP<o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">初尝爱情的我们仿佛是颗刚落地的种子,每一颗都以不同的速度成长;都有不同的生命力。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">不是每颗都成功发芽。同样的,不是每次心动会有什么开始。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">惨绿的树林里,种子选好了自己的角落,依着周围的大树成长。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">大树不辞辛劳的为它挡风遮雨,护着嫩芽却让柔嫩的雨滴滋润着它。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">就这样,嫩芽对大树由依赖浮生了依恋。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">然而好景不长,嫩芽渐渐的茁壮,开始往大树的庇荫外追随阳光。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">这时候,大树的遮荫却被视作障碍,大树张根的领域被视作侵入。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">跨越层层树枝成为它成长的方针。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">然而,这颗大树总陪伴着,在暴风雨中扶持。</span><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">共同历经了无数的雨转风骤之后,它已不再是嫩芽。它逐渐能体谅大树,一起厮守于这片树林。</span><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin"><img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_hndX5-RVw5g/TNwK2Yt-n8I/AAAAAAAAADY/Fq9iCEFz6_M/s320/rain.gif.jpg" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 226px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5538313571223379906" /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">恋爱中的人们是否也像嫩芽那样,热恋期过后开始挑剔双方的不完美。非要穿梭几段恋情过后,才能学会原谅和包容更清楚自己需要个人伴着左右,不离不弃。</span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">你,是否还是嫩芽?</span><o:p></o:p></p>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-58721037267729886642010-08-24T00:21:00.002+08:002010-08-24T00:25:15.482+08:00<div>生日,快乐? RELEASE</div><div>每年的生日我总会特别宠自己,独自逛街买些礼物给自己,或者生日蛋糕给自己庆祝。</div><div>有时候,总觉得物质并不让自己快乐。</div><div><img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_hndX5-RVw5g/THKgz_NTkUI/AAAAAAAAADI/bn15FlpRibk/s320/2252092O9-0.gif" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 190px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5508642109228552514" /></div><div>距离最后一次见面已超过三个星期,我们面对面坐着,好陌生。日式的餐厅里气氛有点僵。点了几道菜,递出手中的菜单后,我们继续沉默。</div><div><br /></div><div>“你想清楚了?"你还是那么冷静,打破寂静。</div><div>“我觉得我们不适合。或许大家追求的,理想的相处方式不同。”我深呼吸,缓缓的说。</div><div><br /></div><div>你继续沉默。</div><div><br /></div><div>“这几个月以来,我挣扎了很久。说放弃我也考虑了很久。我一直钻牛角尖的想- 究竟我对你重不重要,你有没有爱过。然而,我才明白那都不重要。或许我要求的太多,我看清自己在这段关系并不开心。所以对那些问题的答案,都不重要了”我试着冷静,抽口气后,沙声的说。</div><div><br /></div><div>你还是沉默。</div><div><br /></div><div>菜端上了。没有芥末,但眼泪却无声的,不争气的滑落。你无视着,继续进食。</div><div><br /></div><div>饭后,抢进洗手间我仓促的往脸上泼水。接过了就职的清洁员工递过的几张面纸,我忙着拭去脸上的水珠。我拖着脚步,随着你进车。</div><div><br /></div><div>车厢里,电台播着江美琪的双手的温柔。我别过脸,试图隐藏眼角的暗涌。</div><div>离开前,你拉着我的手,给我个拥抱。</div><div><br /></div><div>“对不起。我没做到我对你的承诺。我们发展至此,我也有责任。我赞成我们应该结束,我不希望你继续这样煎熬,我是真的希望你快乐。你一直问我,有什么话要说,我想我能说的也只有对不起。”</div><div><br /></div><div>我转身离开。我哭了一整夜,然而,那一夜我不再失眠。</div><div><br /></div><div>没有奢侈的礼物。今年,我给自己的礼物 -- 解脱。</div><div><br /></div>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-28013015949000557582009-11-09T22:44:00.002+08:002010-06-19T08:58:05.850+08:00幸福幻觉 DELUSION<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhP-FdPVTxYGpQ6ZtzSYcfdJ0kUzsJcAEPNB-mooNbS1T2HfEEdpLwkgN__Z-2P9MTFPO0OAI6qFa-daOoc09h-J02gijSE2nG9lxygAhw0J-GghOwHG7jZ6bmFHzGiCumXMPMMHvc8ce14/s1600-h/Delusions_of_Grandeur.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhP-FdPVTxYGpQ6ZtzSYcfdJ0kUzsJcAEPNB-mooNbS1T2HfEEdpLwkgN__Z-2P9MTFPO0OAI6qFa-daOoc09h-J02gijSE2nG9lxygAhw0J-GghOwHG7jZ6bmFHzGiCumXMPMMHvc8ce14/s320/Delusions_of_Grandeur.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402115649963528562" /></a><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">人性包含着对某段人生回忆的执着</span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>--<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">最幸福的,最痛苦的记忆</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">铭记着它将会让你幸福或不幸,往往系于你对某事件能否摄取当中的教训。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">幸福是否快乐的延续,也或许它本身就是一种感觉</span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>-- <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">就像人生很多的情感那样,非言语能尽述。尽管它只在你的人生似流星划过天际般的,不肯多逗留片刻但你总依稀记得它出现的模样。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">人生里,有很多的情节难免让你产生幸福的错觉。而你只能希望时间能顺着你的贪恋,在那一刻僵住些许,放慢脚步。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:宋体;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">在你广阔的胸膛上,你的体温里我曾感受你掌抚我的背。<span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:Georgia, serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">一切的定义只是纯粹的一夜情</span> --- <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">让我难忘的,浪漫的一夜情。清楚自己只是你人生的过客,当个插曲都嫌太短的出现却无奈夜里总会怀念当天你的拥抱。那曾让自己感觉到幸福踪影的暖流。当然,还有你嘴唇在我额头上烙下的那一记幸福幻觉。</span></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">逐渐的,你的容貌在记忆里淡泊。你的出现让不曾拥有的自己感受患得患失的空洞。</span></p>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-14264238074527209032009-08-26T11:19:00.001+08:002010-06-19T08:59:23.913+08:00事实 The Truth<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHyokCM9YUdLIc9b-kabs45OIM-kTe5t1QqP7nZst9BI7kamx9HfmyXlzdx7treCoHChsEOcLM4-22tIY6gK2pfkp-CcFVhrYFoG9SUy9w6834PMZx28F_vc5-7SopctZkryStnjV80s_E/s1600-h/man+weeping.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHyokCM9YUdLIc9b-kabs45OIM-kTe5t1QqP7nZst9BI7kamx9HfmyXlzdx7treCoHChsEOcLM4-22tIY6gK2pfkp-CcFVhrYFoG9SUy9w6834PMZx28F_vc5-7SopctZkryStnjV80s_E/s320/man+weeping.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5376344646539708690" /></a><div>人们总说『爱情是盲目的』,之所以当你深陷其中就会有许许多多的迷惑和不解的问题。</div><div>许多单恋的尤其如此。虽说局外者请;身为亲历其中的当事人的你难道会一点头绪都没有吗?</div><div><br /></div><div>在某夜里,我收到了某个女性朋友的电话;倾诉他单恋了超过四年的经过。意识近水楼台先得月,她从吉伦坡迁移于新山,就居住邻近他的地方。本以为由于生意上与对方的往来可以多和对方接近,共晚餐。早在两年前,她已掏出巨大的勇气向对方表白而遭 “我太忙于事业” 的婉拒。她对对方的日程安排表也算熟悉,因此也接受这个理由,继续苦苦侯着。</div><div><br /></div><div>在等待的同时,她试图探索对方接受他的可能性却始终无答案。对方并没有施予任何正面的表示。等待良久,近来她终于决定放弃守候从新山迁回吉伦坡。她依然割舍不下,总询问难道临走前给我的拥抱只是友情的表示吗?我们一起共晚餐,聊心难道纯粹是生意拍档那么简单吗?他耍约时,用巧克力向我道歉难道只是朋友之间该有的吗?我不介意等多几年,但是我总是得到任何答复。</div><div><br /></div><div>经对方苦诉一番之后,我只说『我知道你有答案』。</div><div>『自认独立,事业有为的女强人,难道你还会成为他事业的障碍吗?』</div><div>『他纵使是忙,难道会没时间与邻近的你共晚餐或夜宵?』</div><div>『他若是有意,难道连个女朋友的名分也不能给吗?』</div><div>『年近四十的人,难道会因为事业的忙而完全无视其他的需要?』</div><div><br /></div><div>我不是一语惊醒,倒像是泼冷水般。</div><div>泼出去的冷水,倒有几分淋湿自己。</div><div><br /></div><div>早在上个星期的生日,我被他毫无交代的耍约两次。</div><div>对方时常不接自己电话,没回任何简讯。</div><div>对方总是客气的回应『对不起,我会弥补和你庆祝』。『我刚出书,忙于签名会』</div><div><br /></div><div>理由自然是合情合理;与其婉拒我想单恋的人更需要的是对方的残忍。</div><div>当事人的茫然迷惑是因为不愿接受事实,还是因太相信对方的婉拒之词?</div><div><br /></div><div>难道身为当事人就不能明白婉拒者的苦心,“醒目” 一点吗?</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-81557601488105566512009-07-29T01:04:00.000+08:002009-08-26T11:19:43.449+08:00自我价值 SELF-WORTH<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguqWmqd4dWh2evNJSgV-2EgD5jtgGxuRDIApa3hZxbZVAQRp4q6JnhheyrLjz357LzvOCxZwcUlcQk3QDi_MYaaFmUFyAYdvGKw6IeYnT0LbNmGqVfyGpuJPz3cQp9sTYKxQsj_2s4futn/s1600-h/Untitled.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 194px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguqWmqd4dWh2evNJSgV-2EgD5jtgGxuRDIApa3hZxbZVAQRp4q6JnhheyrLjz357LzvOCxZwcUlcQk3QDi_MYaaFmUFyAYdvGKw6IeYnT0LbNmGqVfyGpuJPz3cQp9sTYKxQsj_2s4futn/s320/Untitled.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5363560767878938994" /></a><br />身为单身的同志, 你是否习惯于每日检查同志网站的信箱,看看有没有新的仰慕者或一夜情要求?<div>身为单身的你,是否渴望有个对象给你一点注意力来证明自己的价值?</div><div><br /></div><div>明白自己的价值不因尽由他人批判,但是谁又能在被拒绝数十次后还能潇洒的肯定自己的价值?</div><div>一直不停的反省自己错在那里,总是百思而不得其解。</div><div>或许当局者迷,局外者清;某位友人指出『那只是缘分未到,又何必强求?』</div><div>一直都把缘分当无稽之谈的我不得不认;人生总有空档的时候。那或许会很空虚,但别因此而失去了自己。</div><div><br /></div><div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-22375187952071158262009-06-29T20:39:00.000+08:002009-06-29T20:52:31.042+08:00【爱】-- 无条件?UNCONDITIONAL LOVE<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEikuY74lPCnQyEq8ilb-gAs1fhuqyNGUkjvEPdIaKt7PCck2OmE2sGMjAtG10fGl2rl-q-1qv7g5AzIk32aFkkVOfqW_Nn-_0F2KHvcVm9lxRVVPWDt_64_000G6ZHKd4ZLNyicnd4DQTTY/s1600-h/unconditional-love.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEikuY74lPCnQyEq8ilb-gAs1fhuqyNGUkjvEPdIaKt7PCck2OmE2sGMjAtG10fGl2rl-q-1qv7g5AzIk32aFkkVOfqW_Nn-_0F2KHvcVm9lxRVVPWDt_64_000G6ZHKd4ZLNyicnd4DQTTY/s400/unconditional-love.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5352730435303345058" /></a><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">许多被拒绝过的人或多或少都会质疑自己到底自己出了什么错,甚至自卑的认为自己压根儿配不上对方。也许我们真的做错了什么;但也许我们只是外形上不是他所喜欢的,也许他们还没准备恋爱,也许只是那时候时机不对,也或许只是少了那点化学效应</span> --- <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">既然如此又何必归根究底的认定那是自己的错呢?</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">(我不是不鼓励大家反省自己,只是觉得没必要在这课题上过度折腾自己的思绪)</span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">你身上或许少了些肌肉,也或许多了点赘肉,或许不够瘦,也可能是不够丰满,或许该翘的地方不翘,或许不该丰满的地方丰满</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">—</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">那只是说明了自己不是对方那杯茶,但是自己又何必为此自卑的,钻牛角尖的思索</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span>– <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">到底“自己”错在那里。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">当然,如果只是外形的话很多东西都还有机会更改,但那不代表改了之后自己就是打开对方的心的那把钥匙。如果本不是这把锁的匙,何苦将自己磨成如此之型<i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">?(如果自己乐于追求此改变,另当别论)</i>。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">某位友人曾向自己倾吐过,自己为了男友减肥,为了他去健身,甚至为了供对方钱而多打了几分工,种种只为了成为对方理想情人。分手后,他恨对方,深深的只因自己付出了太多但是没结果。经过一番深思过后,我却认为他应该感激对方。因对方要求的太多,却让他进步的更多。自他健身后,他身边出现更多的追求着;因为累积较多工作资历,他从没有找不到工作的烦恼</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span>– <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">既然如此又何必怀恨呢?</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">某位友人对我说,他绝对认为爱本就该无条件,我很赞成。他接着手抚着他的肚腩说他认为他不该因为体态丰满而被拒绝,责怪人们的现实。接着,他告诉我他喜欢的类型如何</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span>– <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">好看,要高,瘦,等等</span> ~ <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">我没表态。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">或许,我们选择和某人走在一起,原因可以广从喜欢对方事业成功,富有,好看,成熟至被对方的谈吐吸引,喜欢对方的气质,甚至喜欢与对方的身体接触。但,又有多少人胆敢站出来说选择身边的那一位是绝对毫无条件的?</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:宋体;">或许,我们也应该承认与接受我们喜欢他人的确是受一些条件影响,那我们又应该具备什么条件来交换呢?</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:宋体;"><br /></span></p>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-81215668848398016812009-06-23T07:39:00.000+08:002009-06-23T07:50:08.367+08:00对的人 THE RIGHT ONE<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLQfulYdGyU2LnpkOHxGimeelG65PkTTNbN1DcT_LIIGNjmYDdiJnlnI1XjduJQa0DdceqUcOVeTf0M2RsbH_9i2JgXqr-5bAG9mWi8_6eFa0h92fqfFXEEPQugLcm6PgsLsmeGRElHO-n/s1600-h/ist2_4976538-lover-s-quarrel.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 303px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLQfulYdGyU2LnpkOHxGimeelG65PkTTNbN1DcT_LIIGNjmYDdiJnlnI1XjduJQa0DdceqUcOVeTf0M2RsbH_9i2JgXqr-5bAG9mWi8_6eFa0h92fqfFXEEPQugLcm6PgsLsmeGRElHO-n/s320/ist2_4976538-lover-s-quarrel.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5350303149885175586" /></a><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:宋体;"><br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">以下纯粹是个人对恋人的见解与分析,希望有助于大家了解自己身边的情人。只有了解,才更容易谅解。也希望大家能多给意见。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">理想派情人</span><o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">理想派的情人总是对爱情持着浪漫,近乎完美的要求。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">对爱情的表现多数强调在“思想”上,但是总是不够实际和全面化。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">理想派情人的特质有如以下:</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:宋体;"><br /></span></p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-add-space:auto;text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1"></p><ul><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">在暗恋某人时,会牵肠挂肚的想念对方。严重者甚至夜里用各式的幻想来折磨自己,让自己流泪,某个程度上患上精神自虐症。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">性格上偏向传统恋人的思想。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">渴望与情人保持长久联系。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">猜疑心重,容易因为小小细节发生口角。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">过多的精神投入于感情,容易在事业与学业分心,尤其是发生争执时。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">常常缠绕在感情与人际关系的问题上,因而失眠。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">内向,含蓄的居多。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">敏感。常反省对方说的话,再行分析。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">悲观。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">不善于表达情感。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">总是反省自己,在脑里重复上映着对方犯下的错。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">注重道德观,对感情有纯洁的思想。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">恋爱时,总是隐藏对爱情的不满,总觉得自己不该向对方要求太多,却因不满而保持冷漠。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">爱的很深</span>-<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">总认为自己愿意为对方而牺牲所有。</span></li></ul><p></p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">给理想派的提示:</span><o:p></o:p></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">真心的包容和接受对方的过去,有许多的细节是不值得引起争吵和冷战。可以和情人讨论彼此向往的恋爱模式。放松的看待事物或许让自己开心许多。单恋着不妨对自己自信点,乐观点,魅力可是会急速上升!</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">行动派</span><o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">所谓的行动派就是注重“行动”来表达自己。若理想派觉得自己表达的不够感受的百分之一,行动派则是表达的比感受的多。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">与理想派有鲜明对比的行动派:</span></p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-add-space:auto;text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2"></p><ul><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">行动力十足,会积极的邀对方看戏,晚餐,约会。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">不怕被拒绝,但也不轻易就放弃。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">虽不轻易放弃,不代表他会死守着对方。(如果今天你拒绝了他,说不定明天你转身就看见他和别人约会)。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">善于制造气氛,部署约会。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">技巧的调情,懂得如何向对方罐迷汤。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">不够敏感于对方的想法。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">总让人觉得吊儿郎当。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">乐天派。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">外向,不常伪装自己。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">交际能力佳。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">喜欢新鲜的事物,容易厌倦于规律的生活。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">对暗恋的人总是三分钟热度。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">恋爱中,总是失去时才痛惜曾经拥有的。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">常逃避厌烦的事物,</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">包括情人。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">不喜于符合或迁就他人。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">不被过去捆着,总是充满希望。</span></li></ul><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">给行动派的提示:</span><o:p></o:p></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">自己想象的浪漫不一定人人都欣赏,记得投其所好。若能表现稳重一点就帅呆了。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">香草式恋人</span><o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">区别于以上的两种,香草式情人对爱情并不奢望太多。现实的他总是注重脚踏实地的做人。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">这种情人多数为承受感情严重创伤着或严重的工作狂。所谓的香草式是指沉闷,对浪漫毫无概念的。若你爱上这类型的人,才开始恋爱就像是老夫老妻那样。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">多数的香草式情人有以下特征:</span></p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-add-space:auto;text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3"></p><ul><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">与情人保持一定的距离。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">向往老夫老妻式的感情,总觉陪伴对方就好。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">总把情人和自己看成两个个别体。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">可以理智的看待爱情(理智的还算是爱情吗?)</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">生活很有规律。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">把事业看得比感情重要。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">对情人很少表示</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span>– <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">难把爱说出口</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">欠缺浪漫的构思,欠缺行动上的爱。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">对感情持着可有可无的心态。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">冷淡,时而冷漠。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">少许自闭。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">总认为对爱情的痴是种不成熟的表现。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">暗地里计较自己对对方的付出。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">对感情专一。</span></li><li><span style="font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol;mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol;"><span style="mso-list:Ignore"><img width="12" height="12" src="file:///C:/Users/Eugene/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" /><span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">愿意符合情人的要求,可以忍让。</span></li></ul><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">给香草恋人的提示:</span><o:p></o:p></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">自己的恋爱模式不一定是情人向往的,多了解对方渴求的爱情。生活上不能缺乏一些情调。如果有暗恋的人,记得要部署行动追求,不然很可能会长期单身。可以学习享受浪漫,别总觉得那都是为对方而作而已。</span></p>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-20736168415802318342009-06-08T00:51:00.000+08:002009-06-21T00:37:31.118+08:00淡淡忧伤 FEELING<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEir1AnAc5aw38KWHRMGgpKYibidO0TPHMXpxlhdhFxuakM-2OQpseaAp5lD8fgcF0JD5qjOTSwOlf0Q-bR9QHCLpY5gVihJYB3_mUHLbrW8B-AkkkX3CB5ZHlxe8blLZasUbKETCLBVDBtO/s1600-h/35.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 134px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEir1AnAc5aw38KWHRMGgpKYibidO0TPHMXpxlhdhFxuakM-2OQpseaAp5lD8fgcF0JD5qjOTSwOlf0Q-bR9QHCLpY5gVihJYB3_mUHLbrW8B-AkkkX3CB5ZHlxe8blLZasUbKETCLBVDBtO/s200/35.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5344638827342959362" /></a><br /><div>情场上失意的人总是比较懂得细细的品尝每首情歌。</div><div><br /></div><div>或许是特别喜欢这里的歌,光顾FEELING成了自己的惯例。总是和自己的室友坐下慢慢的细听歌手演绎的首首情歌。每当心情不好时,总会光顾这里轻松一下。</div><div><br /></div><div>陶醉在情歌里,恍然自己的情绪起落实是因被爱情的失意。被爱情的渴冲昏了脑之余的我此刻才发现,原来自己一直都忽略了友情的可贵。只有朋友会惯例的陪自己光顾这里;只有他会在自己失意时逗自己笑;只有他在时,生活多了许多的欢笑声。习惯性的和他评论每个首歌的演绎,歌手的音质,到生活的一切。他看着自己一次一次的分手,总在身边支持者。眼眶红了,有温热的手掌搭在背上。</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>.... 不能放纵爱你,就放过自己</div><div>爱情已经过了甜蜜期,多说也是无益</div><div>爱不爱我已经没关系, 一点小伤而已..</div><div>你可以很放心,我不会为了留你 ........ </div><div><i>------- 我恨我爱你</i></div><div><br /></div><div>如果我们现在还在一起会是怎样</div><div>我们是不是还是深爱着对方,像开始时那样...</div><div>------- <i>怎样</i></div><div><br /></div><div>(<i>一首首的情歌仿佛提醒自己,爱情总是只在开始时灿烂</i>)</div><div><br /></div><div>我拭去泪眼,听着一首首的情歌我沉醉在这种淡淡的忧伤,细细品尝人生情感的一部分。</div>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-29094855989926827822009-06-07T18:11:00.001+08:002010-06-19T09:06:04.921+08:00透明人 NOBODY<div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">我认为,每个人或多或少总有一些自己不想见,不想接触,不想联络</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">,不想有什么牵扯的人。这些人在我们的世界里被忽视</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span>– <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">像是透明般那样。他们或许不解为什么他们总是被敷衍,电话总是没接,简讯总是不回。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">被蓄意的敷衍及被忽视并不是没来由的,或许“透明人”看不透这个透明的理由。他们或许也想知道,或许也尝试挽回一些什么?</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">我试图追求某个人,像是许多单恋的人,尝试拨电话,简讯给喜欢的人。但总是没回复,也没接通。明白对方并没义务招呼自己,但是总胸口总是纳闷</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span>– <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">我无法联络他,说追求,从何下手?显然,自己成为了对方的透明人。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">终于,我在网络上受到了他的回复</span>- <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">刹那间明白是自己搞砸了许多事物。我接受了他的要求删除了其中部落格文章并且为自己的幼稚道歉。没有人愿意成为故事里的角色被评论吧</span>… </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">我很感激他在回信里还保持着相当的风度</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span>– <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">每个字眼仿佛被拣选过,用最不伤自己的话来表达</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span>– <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">他把我当朋友。我很感激他的坦白并告诉他,虽然失望,这是我等待的答案。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">抱着枕头,夜里还是会怀念着那一夜抱着你的感觉。一个人躺下时总是亿起那一夜你拥着我入眠。想起你说的我是你见过最可爱的</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">(这算哪门的安慰?),心里百感交错。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">或许,身为透明人,应该了解自己烦扰对方太多,应该了解自己是对方想摆脱但是尽量避免伤害的对象,应该懂得有些东西勉强不得,更应该懂得逐渐的放手。</span></p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhRXPGee7YHPKqdAhoq9CyiAzv85E61mBqBiqCjyWwm-OqM0xtwk45_QNCK8rIlAk4uICelH7mf5hKPln1W0cfV8BRM5EjtklQy455WUsvYkm9ybYDQcw2-VNm6cLPSLHIs6654UQdxLzjU/s200/20081141734121.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 145px; height: 200px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5344530869218727314" /> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">在感慨当中,看清了自己只不过是渴望爱的可怜虫</span>, <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">走过了这么多圈的感情原来还是没长进,还在原点。</span></p><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-58837840673028677222009-05-23T05:28:00.002+08:002010-06-19T09:07:57.638+08:00褪色爱情LOVE FADES<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">褪色爱情</span>LOVE FADES</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">『一件蓝色的衣服,如果褪色了依旧还是蓝色。在你还没把它完全漂白之前它还是蓝色。』</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">『一场褪色的爱情,如果褪色了依旧还是恋情。在你还没把它完全结束之前它还是段恋情。』</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">像罐头食物那样,爱情就像是被设定了保鲜期。过期的食物不能服用,过期的爱情让人伤神。尽管保鲜的功夫再了得,似乎也避不开过期。无论是食物或是恋情的标准 -- 两年,三年的保鲜期算是长了。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">『我有</span>xxx <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">的尺寸,</span>xxx<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">高,</span>xxx<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">体重,</span>xxx<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">号。</span>Seeking fun/sex<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">』这是网路上再熟悉不过的讯息,你甚至不会记得那是某位,某年,某日发送给的。当你试图解剖他们的世界,他们也可以告诉你,他们在某年前也曾像你一样单纯,也经历过淳朴的恋爱,也死心塌地过,痴情也似乎不比你少。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">我总觉那过往恋情上的刀疤只是让自己放纵的借口。渐渐的,我厌倦了感情的无奈,迁就,失望和不忠;忽然真的觉得单身或许也没那么糟,就当作是让自己休息养神吧</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">(不甘寂寞的自己似乎没有很长的单身记录)。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">红尘上,恋情重复着热恋,平淡,冷却直到争吵结尾。从极度关心到了尽力厮守着一场关系,一个人的极限还能经历多少次呢?然而,对爱只持着观望不前的态度,我们又会失去些什么?</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">或许,宁愿选择不放弃每个心动。因为我觉得这份感觉已是难得,即使后来受伤了至少自己试过,就没遗憾。过程或许坎坷但总比像是枯井般没经历任何改变来的好。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-1638474663483028262009-05-18T17:29:00.000+08:002009-05-18T17:31:41.679+08:00蜕变 METAMORPHOSIS<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGWd31T7YhBvqR4zLY3qAcErskb-wNDuB56DmmXP7ULdCaCkwIDEIXTNdIuphJWKcP56Luw58umG2WFeB6SCmPzXbM6T-TXc9HrYydexkrgTWHv7tBfFRt_vixjIGq0RLeu7N2Dti6OSor/s1600-h/685213.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 133px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGWd31T7YhBvqR4zLY3qAcErskb-wNDuB56DmmXP7ULdCaCkwIDEIXTNdIuphJWKcP56Luw58umG2WFeB6SCmPzXbM6T-TXc9HrYydexkrgTWHv7tBfFRt_vixjIGq0RLeu7N2Dti6OSor/s200/685213.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5337094089685438978" /></a><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 宋体; ">我很好奇,蜕变成蜻蜓后的它在飞行时,是否从水面上的倒影察觉到了自己的变化?</span></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">它可曾感到惊讶与能否接受新的自己?<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia; "></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia; "> </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">我总以为,最了解自己的人,莫过于自己。我懂自己的想法,懂自己追求什么,更懂得自己如何看待不同的事物。事实不尽然。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 宋体; ">我曾让恋爱左右自己太多,把太多的精神寄托于感情上。单纯的自己只想处于一对一的恋情,奢望爱与被爱。经历了四段感情过后我从没和数年前的自己对照直到了某次和朋友喝茶的时候,我们聊到了一夜情和性伙伴的话题。</span></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“我近来有了个固定的性伴侣,直到最近我每次联络他都说没空。我想或许是腻了吧”</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“我想那很快腻吧,我从来不找一夜情或这种的关系。我只希望你清楚自己要什么,要小心。”任谁都知道那『小心』意味着什么。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“我觉得感情太累人了,我不想操心些什么。你清楚我从第一段感情到现在,我已包容太多,甚至因此而失去。在没有结束前我都以为自己把感情经营的很好,现在我终于明白感情并没有经营方程式,只有随缘。我和那个对象不一样,那不是普通的性关系,我享受靠着他的肩膀,我喜欢他吻我的额头,喜欢他的拥抱,不觉得那很浪漫吗?”我倒是羡慕他,经营者长达五年以上的恋情。(或许是谁看谁好而已吧~)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“那毕竟不踏实。”他越来越像个妈妈。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“不觉得那有什么不对,可以享受这样的浪漫,也不用为对方操心。”连自己都不清楚那是不是自己的立场,什么时候自己变了怎么多?我不是也曾歧视那些一夜情玩家吗?我不也觉得对感情累了只是放纵的借口?</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">回忆起某天我提出的分手,我连声说对不起</span>… <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">要求对方原谅自己的自私。那不是第三者,只是自己处于这段关系并不快乐。然而,在我抱着,安慰着泣不成声的他,残忍的把这长达三年的恋情画上句点。人说分手让你看清一个人。而我分手时才把自己看得最透。片刻之间,自己忽然了解自己给对方多少的压力,了解自己有多自私,明白自己要求的太多,付出的太少。像是看到了水面上的倒影,我猛然觉醒自己的变化。</span></p>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-33537325464932205062009-05-17T19:59:00.001+08:002010-06-19T09:12:23.091+08:00浪漫记忆存库, ROMANTIC MEMORY STORAGE<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:宋体;">『我曾经拥有过,那总聊胜于无』</span><br /></div><div><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">『我曾经拥有过,我痛苦于失去』</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> <span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:宋体;">走过布满荆刺的记忆旅程,你是否被刺到后,还会留意到荆刺旁开着鲜艳的花?</span></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">无论你是前者还是后者,往后的路还得继续。而你的心境,非间接的影响你往后的路。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">我曾经疯狂的追求某个孤傲的家伙。我总觉得很难和他相处,或许是自己个人的问题。我们之间话不多,没什么活动,没看电影。但我总喜欢和他在一起,最淳朴的在家里度过。那是“家”的味道。我靠在他的肩膀,他在看着电视,没有对话,手却不停的抚摸自己的头发和背。一向不相信</span>PHEROMONE<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">的自己竟然喜欢他身上谈谈的气息,有点沐浴露的味道。不晓得那是不是</span> ENDORPHINE<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">(</span>beta-endorphine,<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">未成年老鼠闻到鼠妈妈就感受到安全感)作祟,自己似乎也感受到极度安全感。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“如果时间能在这一刻停住就好了”那是我非常孩子气的对白。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“傻的,时间不会停住”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> <span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:宋体;">时间确实不曾停住,但那天的回忆总是停泊在我记忆里。</span></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">(后来我们非常不愉快的结束,没走在一起,但还保持淡淡的友谊)</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">他曾说过让自己很受伤的话,他道歉过。或许我曾受伤,但是我不割舍这段记忆,那也可以算是自己在这段关系的战利品。(我很确定这个</span>“<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">孤傲</span>”<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">的家伙不会看到这个部落格,哈哈)</span></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:宋体;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhz1vsYLbfmxpRUVIcceZiZY4L0O1A7n4R9oT58UVzPq4yh4JaCUgcEr5Ui8I0zOsxlk1kFZ3tE3rvAiXOBC_uhM7S5lTGvlwXtr2lBYB3G0FruBy84Zj4Xp7GzE82KJSXIJgVT9cY1a0pb/s320/love+disc.jpg" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 89px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336762350668186146" /><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2pT-bS0kJf8SkOu43aXxzDLQ0WXxZC5H67D-sTKH9XQAkrgxRSOnIOHHrpXnZIkAlZ584sAsHZj82rQfyxzCiyelURhufnfVeFeetdmZv5I7PMV89dDM92GsVVUCvB4CuswaCzcZ_E7uy/s320/gay+cuddle+together.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336764915681401986" /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> <span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:宋体;">每段感情或交往或许在结束时给自己很大的打击,但是别因此而把最美的那段给磨灭了。</span></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> <span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:宋体;">在百无聊赖的时候,翻开记忆存库我乐于回味曾有过的浪漫,虽然我不再拥有。</span></o:p></p><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div></div>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-91229313597222565902009-05-15T17:34:00.000+08:002009-05-15T17:43:44.009+08:00过去式,PAST TENSE<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">距离和他分手应该有四年了。我们已有两年没联络。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">或许是寂寞的驱使,那夜我翻了手机里的通讯录,拨电话给你。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">我们很客气的问候,陌生的气氛让人说话总是格外的客气。最终你开玩笑的说我已工作了,期待我请客吃饭,我一口气答应了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">后来的进展,我们除了一起吃饭还看戏,唱</span>K, <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">逛街。在看完</span>SELL OUT<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">之后,你快步奔向停车场,我在背后总是差两步的跟着。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“总算比</span>INTERPRETER<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">好看”我打破沉默。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“什么?那是什么?”我失望了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">分手之后,我很感激你还不厌其烦的接听我的电话,让我慢慢的习惯没有你的声音。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">还记得我们曾经在电话上述说我们之间的故事。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“我还记得我第一次看见你的时候,你穿着红色格子衣,搭着牛仔裤,那时我们在</span>MAMAK<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">档喝茶”我述说着。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“那时那里在播放周星驰的戏”原来你还有印象。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“我一直都好奇,你那时说你把锁匙留在办公室所以回不到家,是真的吗?”这是我们之间发展的关键,之后你在我家过夜,所有的所有都是从那里开始。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“当然”</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“我们第一约会是去看电影,那是在</span>AMCORP MALL”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">那部戏名是</span>INTERPRETER”</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">我们曾这样的把整个恋爱述说到分手那一刻。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“分手那天你还是穿着红色格子衣,我记得我躺在你的肩膀,还用眼泪弄湿了你的衣服。之后我的衣服也沾上你的</span>CK<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">香水味,我留了三天才洗”你在电话里笑了笑解尴尬。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">“或许如果不是因为远距离,如果我没被公司调到那里,我们或许就不会分手”那是你的结论,还是安慰。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">我们究竟是记忆太好,还是我们都曾惦记着过去?</span></p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaoIkCLHqGU5rMa8LIiZ0VikMqfKUkf46RBcPlllo7okyeYULMFZKWg0KuJsgSwQohVCR-4iRaXZkcwgEEaAVxlMjJrY61waQCZHMGosdSTXeCZWwjlpyq5HF52xFTMHfIXkJpQOtlin9Y/s320/hands+together.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 213px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5335983587694021458" /> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">我们到了停车场。我坐进你的</span>Porsche<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">过后我才清醒,此刻的你已非以前的你。你说那是因为换了工作让你在个性上改变了很多。此刻,很确实的,你记忆里不再有我们的过去。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;">不否认,我还惦记着我们的过去。但我能接受那已是过去式。</span></p>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5232019062382830750.post-14985606825438612522009-05-13T15:17:00.000+08:002009-05-13T15:51:26.359+08:00宝贝,BABY<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">不知道什么时候开始,我发觉自己对别人称呼自己“宝贝”这两个字毫无免疫力。</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">这时代的人似乎都很懂得调情,而这么甜蜜的称呼自然不可少。</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">当然,不否认,在这么多曾经称呼自己“宝贝”的,也有真的珍惜自己的人。很多人似乎都习惯用宝贝来称呼男朋友,炮友,或者想约会的对象,甚至想上床的对象。而他们也并不是因为企图性的刻意用这两个字当诱饵,却很顺口的说出来。</span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">尤其是从自己心仪的对象的口说出,那更是让自己心神荡漾,心跳慢了一拍。相信很多人或许也有类似的经验。在还单纯的时候,我曾受到简讯,那是来自一个相识不久的同志网友。见过面,吃过饭(算不算约会?)的男人,称呼自己宝贝,心里燃起丝丝的暖意</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">(</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">是不是脑袋太简单了?就这么轻易上当</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">)</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">。之后自己和他的关系就从被追求演变到疯狂的追求对方,而最终选择放弃来结束</span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> </span></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">在不单纯后,被某个认识了两年的网友,很好看,身材很好,。。。称呼宝贝。我简单的回应</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> </span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">【你就怎么轻易这样称呼噢,我可是会融化的。。。</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> </span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">】</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">. </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">不得不认自己对这两个字的免疫力向来都不好,何况来自自己喜欢类型的男人。</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> </span></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">当然,如果对方是自己厌恶的对象,或不是自己那杯茶说不定适得其反。</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> </span></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我也曾在某个状况下,讨厌这样的称呼。我曾有过一段很短的恋情,那是一位法医,同时在修读他的博士学位。从没想过自己会跟这行的人会有什么牵扯,但是后来就演变成了远距离恋情,转入分手告终。因为英文教育,他常在简讯叫我</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> </span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">“</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">BABY” </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">而自己也曾经甜蜜的回应这些讯息。当我发觉他也呼实验白老鼠</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">baby,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">之后自己开始讨厌这称呼,当然我从没向他开口表明。(如果大家好奇的话,那些白老鼠都被剥开了脑袋)。</span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:宋体;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNIqobwg1j-vjKJ8LnFEPSovrwDcuyimM12eYfgVeWnA4acf47kvDih1nVk23BIW1-M82XU0kMM1aUVzNwvTCIgxOwWxhr_aRAimGbNWAIyFmG7-kbE0kohoNQXQv3MwuiFmuOh3IPYwYl/s320/white_rat_big.gif" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 295px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5335209100507601186" /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> </span></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">写了这么多无聊的,还是想提醒大家,如果都对这两个字免疫力像我那么差,记得被麻醉了过后,醒着想想对方是不是太顺口,脱口而出的呢?</span></span></p>小信http://www.blogger.com/profile/10484421299054970336noreply@blogger.com2